Anti-Manifesting

We think of it as being practical or being logical or reasonable about the whole thing.  There’s a situation, it needs a solution in a specific time frame, there are limited options, so we sort and sift and think creatively outside the box while staying within the lines and come up with a solution. …

Why Aren’t You?

When is someday?  What is the actual date at which someday becomes today and you get to live the life you want? And what does that life actually look like?  Or better yet what does it feel like? I’ve found that people, myself included, are great at visualizing what their someday will look like and then they take that picture in their mind and use it as a template to check whether or not they’ve arrived at someday. …

Stop & Listen

You know that phrase “It’s not you, it’s me?” Classic break up schtick.  However, it’s something we tend to tell ourselves as well.  It’s not the situation, it’s something in me that’s causing this to happen.  It’s not a series of events caused by situations outside my control, it’s something I’m manifesting. …

It’ll Be Easy

There’s a spiritual faery tale out there that if you get on your path, if you figure out what you’re here to do and you start doing it, then everything will be easy.  Unicorns will appear farting rainbows, money will well up from the earth in such abundance you’ll wade through it, and kittens will gently play all obstacles out of your path so you never even notice them. …

Find Your Own Rhythm

You have goals, you have dreams, you know what you want your life to look like someday, but is it even possible to get there from here?  Someday isn’t now and there’s just so much that has to get done.  You’ve got priorities and responsibilities and so many people depend on you…Besides, this is what life is supposed to be like right?…

Created Life

We tend to see life as happening to us and point to the moments when we made free will conscious choices to go right or left or straight on to sunrise as few and far between, as life markers that show where we changed course. …

Who Farted?

I don’t know how many times I’ve heard people talk about healing deep core issues in a way that makes it sound like they just farted and they don’t want to have anybody else smell it.  “I just want to release and let it go. …

When It’s Done

How do you know when something is done?  For some things it’s easy like most online games.  There’s a goal to achieve and once you’ve achieved it you’re done.  Or like school, once the year is done, the course work is done, the degree is done, you’re done. …

Self-Abuse

Something I run across frequently is self-abuse. There is quite a bit of focus out there in the world on how people abuse each other.  Whether it is explicit through trolling, war, bar fights, domestic violence, or the plethora of prejudices out there, we are bombarded with information about how we abuse each other on a semi-regular basis. …