Be Who You’re Looking For

“All of my life I’ve been looking for someone who will….”  It’s amazing how we can have such a detailed understanding of what it is we want from and in that certain someone in our lives, but when asked what we want from and for ourselves we draw a complete blank. …

Emotional Competency

In this year of the goat the theme will be about being competent with our emotions. That has nothing to do with controlling them, repressing them, regulating them, or attempting to release them back into the wild.  It’s about being fluent in them, competent to use them just as we’ve (hopefully) become competent at driving our vehicles, using cutlery, and texting (butt dialing not withstanding.) …

Whew! We Made It!

The landing on this past year was a bit shaky but any one you can walk away from, right?  From the year of the Horse to the year of the Goat we’re moving out of emotionally turbulent waters into the quieter passions.…

And So It Begins…

goat-640x480 Or not.  It’s Friday, it’s a long weekend after a long weekend and the holidays have just happened and stuff.  So take a moment to look at things a different way, hang out a bit, clear away the party debris.  If you want to think heavy thoughts about where you’ve been and where you’re going, fine, just don’t work too hard at it. …

New Year’s Eve

It is the end of the year of the Horse and it’s been a wild ride for everyone, it would seem. Some have had a great time, some have survived horrible journey’s, and most of us have had a mixture of highs and lows that have left us a bit breathless. …

Celebrate Life

Life is to be lived and if you’re not enjoying it you’re doing it wrong…or something.  Yes, life is short and each day we should have at least one thing that makes us smile just because, more if we can get them. …

What’s Missing

Lots of us are motivated by what we don’t have.  We spend huge amounts of time and effort trying to fill in the cracks, trying to get to that satisfied feeling of “enough” and finding that certain someone what fulfills us or fills in the place where we need something because there’s longing….…