Sounds crazy, right? Who would be afraid of changing their life for the better? Of being successful in what they want to do? But its the truth and the old adage is correct. Most people prefer ‘the Devil you know’ to whatever is out there that they don’t know. Because what they don’t know could…
DetailsYou have a need that radiates from the center of your soul. You have a plan that is the best means for your to get that need met. You do everything listed in the plan in the right way in the right order…. And yet your need doesn’t get met. That is the most terrible,…
DetailsI know, I know. Sounds like all the self-help books out there. Well, sometimes the self-help books have the right idea. Here’s the thing, though. Trusting yourself really means trusting Yourself. Not all the things that your family and your friends have told you, not the things that social media teaches you, not the things…
DetailsI love my android not only for the fun apps and the good sound quality I get, but mostly I love it for the GPS. I just got back from a road trip to California where I had to use the back roads to get from Hwy 101 to I-5. I had instructions from friends…
DetailsKnow that saying ‘Don’t sweat the small stuff. It’s all small stuff.’ Well, yes. In the end, unless you’re a Marvel comic’s super hero or a brain surgeon or a rocket scientist, it’s all small stuff. So don’t sweat it. But do pay attention to it. Because who you are is spelled out in the…
DetailsSo what do you do once you’ve tried something and it didn’t turn out the way you thought? You have a college degree but there is no job out there for you and you’re back living at home with your parents…your marriage is trashed and he’s gone and now you have a baby to take care…
DetailsEven if you know who you are or what you want, doesn’t mean that everything becomes easy and smooth sailing. You still have to figure out who to get where you want to go, you have to figure out how to get the money, how to work with other people, how to deal with issues as they…
DetailsSo there is very much a difference between a soldier and a warrior. A soldier is someone who, either by draft or by choice, is part of a structured army or fighting force with a leader that sends them to fight for a cause, theoretical or practical. A warrior is someone who is willing to…
DetailsThis is Memorial Day. With all its odd mixture of Nationalist rhetoric, pro/anti-war sentiment, sadness for he fallen, vague guilt that we should feel/do/be something we aren’t, anger that we are something we never wanted to be, and the need to stop the hurting. No wonder people run away from home this weekend. Being Native American I’m not interested…
DetailsVacations are amazing things. We go somewhere complete different, do different things, have a different schedule, and hopefully come back refreshed and exhilarated or at least more experienced. But what are we coming back to? Vacations are not one way; they are round trip. Like a boomerang you are coming back. So what is the actual purpose of…
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