My friends and I sometimes joke about the men in our lives and how they measure on the present scale. You know, for a holiday do they get you a power tool that is something they actually want, do they forget altogether, do they get something that makes no sense, do they do a ‘Hail…
Life is a daily delight/onslaught of input. From the time we awake to the time we sleep our senses intake information at a high rate of speed. And our brains seek to make meaning from it and to navigate it using the maps of relationships, needs, wants, requirements, and survival to build it into something…
Nothing is more heart wrenching than leaving something undone until it is too late. If there is something you really want to do, don’t worry about what other people will think, don’t worry about how to get it done, get rid of the box you’ve been thinking in and go out and do it. 10…
Clients I work with all want to know, “What’s my purpose in life?” and “Why am I here?”. Sometimes the answers are really exciting and ‘sexy’ like, “You’re here to help heal small children” or “You’re here to learn this major lesson about love and family” or “You’re here to work in foreign countries bringing…
In writing about sacred space, I’ve been thinking about religious spaces. And there are a lot of religious spaces to consider. Just the number of temples in India boggles the mind, let alone the shrines, ashrams, and wandering mystics. Or think about the number of churches in the Bible Belt in the states. Heck, where…
I hear people talk about listening being an art form or a lost art. *sigh* I don’t actually see it as an art so much as a necessity of life. Kinda like looking where you walk. You can not do that and stub your toe, fall and break a bone, go off steep cliffs and…
I know quite a few people in my life that are either self-employed or are trying to start a business or just get a new job, something that makes sense for their life and that they can at least be satisfied with and be able to pay the bills. However, they all struggle constantly and…
I’ve heard that other writers and artists suffer through this as well. There’s a point, somewhere in the middle of a project, where it feels like you’ve totally failed, you’re a failure, this is never going to work, you should scrap it and start over, you’re never going to make deadline, what was I thinking…
Being a medium is a time honored tradition whose popularity ebbs and flows in popular culture. It was taken on by Spiritualism in Victorian times and became somewhat like video games are to us today. Entertainment that can become obsessive and or a lifestyle. I recently watched an interesting HBO special on Lilydale which is…
Everyone grieves at some point in their lifetime. In fact, it’s a common emotion with many different variations just like there are multitudinous types of sadness, happiness, or anger. We can grieve the loss of a pet, a friend, an opportunity, a phase of life, a career, a toy, or a loved one, just to…