Wisdom

Be What You Want

Clients talk to me on a regular basis about wanting a relationship or wondering when the relationship they want is going to happen.  You know, “Where is my soul mate and when are they going to get here?” 85% of the time the answer is that it will happen when it happens but mostly when you dump the double standard. … Details

If You Have To Say It…

You know that old adage that if you have to tell someone you are something they you’re probably not?  You know, like the politicians that tell us their honest or the person who says they are open minded while being judgmental in their next breath? … Details

Silence Is An Answer

I have clients who tell me they have been asking and asking for an answer to this question and they get absolutely nothing.  Maybe this is the first time it’s happened and they feel lost and without a rudder or maybe it has happened before but never for this long.… Details

All The Feels

Emotions are like teenagers.  They don’t necessarily need intense conversation where their innermost source is brought to light and dissected, in fact that’s more attention than they can handle. In most cases what they need is to be acknowledged and heard, validated and left to their own devices. … Details

No Is A Valid Answer

We all get frustrated sometimes because we seem to be doing it all right.  We’re holding our intention, we taking right action, we’re being open to the universe, we’re doing what we’ve been asked to do, and still the thing we most want isn’t manifesting. … Details

Turn Down the Volume

People ask me what they can do to hear their guides more clearly.  They want to communicate more directly, to hear the guidance they know they’re getting, to be able to access wisdom more fully.  Fair enough.  Sometimes this means teaching them communication techniques for making the communication more conscious like showing them how to use guided meditation and their Akashic room to interact directly with their guides just like they would have conversations with friends over a glass of wine or a cup of coffee. … Details

Running From or Running To?

Running is just a means of getting from here to here (says the person who doesn’t jog).  What is important is the reason why you’re running.  Yes, you need to get from here to there.  So did the chicken, we just don’t know why.… Details

Anti-Manifesting

We think of it as being practical or being logical or reasonable about the whole thing.  There’s a situation, it needs a solution in a specific time frame, there are limited options, so we sort and sift and think creatively outside the box while staying within the lines and come up with a solution. … Details

Why Aren’t You?

When is someday?  What is the actual date at which someday becomes today and you get to live the life you want? And what does that life actually look like?  Or better yet what does it feel like? I’ve found that people, myself included, are great at visualizing what their someday will look like and then they take that picture in their mind and use it as a template to check whether or not they’ve arrived at someday. … Details

Stop & Listen

You know that phrase “It’s not you, it’s me?” Classic break up schtick.  However, it’s something we tend to tell ourselves as well.  It’s not the situation, it’s something in me that’s causing this to happen.  It’s not a series of events caused by situations outside my control, it’s something I’m manifesting. … Details