Controlling Change

Sometimes change is incremental.  Like age it covers miles one step at a time and we don’t really notice the journey until something points out that we’ve made it. When people talk about the change in their lives, the positive changes they’ve made, this is usually what they are referring to.  They point out this…

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Interpretations

Many times a problem lies not in the event that happened but in our interpretation of it. We are meaning making machines and a large part of our early years is spent in learning what things mean such as how our parents can know we were doing something (sound carries), why does my foot suddenly…

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I Was Super Famous

…don’t you want to know about my past lives where I was a super famous person?  Um….nope.   Not because it’s not cool or interesting. It usually is to a certain extent.  There are books out there by people and about people who have been famous or influential in past lives.  I have clients that fall…

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Technical Difficulties

People bang their heads against obstacles all the time.  I have students and clients that have struggled with things like meditation, reading their own Akashic record, or journeying and they have tried “absolutely EVERYTHING!”  Sometimes they have worked on this for 20+ years to no avail. They can’t see things, they don’t get anything, they…

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Investing In You

People sometimes get fixated on a mythological someday where they will have all the time and the energy in the world to do what they want to do.  Which never seems to be today and never even seems to be soon.  This mythological someday requires that we not enjoy what we’re doing right now, that…

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What If Its Not a Duck?

You know the saying, “If it looks like a duck and acts like a duck and sounds like a duck then it’s probably..”  There’s a lot of truth to that which people ignore on a really regular basis especially in relationships.  I can’t even count how many people over the past 30 years have talked…

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Flavors of Ice Cream

I love it when I look in someone’s soul book and see that they have an array of potential partner contracts to work with and not just one.  Everyone wants that magical prince(ss) to come and sweep them off their feet, provide for all their needs emotional and otherwise, and with which they will live…

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Toddler Fiction

People do loooooove their opposites and absolutes.  Either things will go well or I’ll fall into abject poverty.  I’ll either win the lottery or be forced to slave at a low wage job forever. I’ll either find the woman of my dreams or I’ll have to settle for whoever comes along, because being lonely is…

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Watching That Pot

*9 women can’t make a baby in a month *I’m dancing as fast as I can *Patience is a virtue *A watched pot never boils We have a lot of ways to say that it takes however long it takes to get the end result.  That doesn’t make it any easier on us or make…

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No – You Have To Change

Well, you don’t.  It’s kinda this weird cause and effect thing.  If you don’t want things to change, then you don’t have to change at all.  Oh, but you do?  Then you have to change.  But there’s nothing wrong with you, you’ve done it all right and it’s everything else that’s garbage?  Oh, ok. So…

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