From the website “Dear Beautiful Men: … Love a woman – one woman beyond yourself, beyond desire and reason, beyond your male preferences for youth, beauty and variety and all your superficial concepts of freedom. We have given ourselves so many choices we have forgotten that true liberation comes from standing in the middle of the soul’s fire and burning through our resistance to love.… Details

Was it me or was it you?

One of the hardest things, and one of the questions that I get asked quite often is, “Could it have been different?”  So many people come to me wanting to know if their lives would have been different if they had not married this one person, if they had acted a different way in their marriage, why their relationships don’t work out, why they had bad relationships, etc, etc. … Details


People ask me if I “believe in all this stuff.”  To which I reply, ‘why do I need to believe it.  It either is or it isn’t and my believing it doesn’t effect that in any way.  I experience what I do, it has positive results, and people have the ability to live better lives because of it.’… Details

Excitement or Drama

On television these two words are synonomous.  Drama is excitement and shows are filled with it week in and week out.  The more the better and with ever increasing intensity as a show unfolds throughout a season or seasons.  However life makes quite a few distinctions between the two.… Details

Cleaning & Clearing

In Cherokee tradition the time for cleaning and clearing is in August.  Everything is geared around the time of ripening crops and in particular the corn.  Corn is considered the first woman in our traditions and the largest ceremony of the year is when the green corn turns ripe. … Details

Reading in the Akashics

I hear a lot from people who are interested in learning how to do readings in the Akashics or have been trying to learn how to read in the Akashics from books or from trainings they have received from teachers.  I have learned over time to just sit back and listen while they describe their experiences and frustrations with their experiences because usually the first thing we have to work through in the conversation is what they are really talking about.… Details

Sometimes it’s about Validation

Community is important. We live interconnected lives but like the villages of old, through circumstances of family, career, education, or just plain happenstance, we are thrust into association with people.  Masses and masses of them and rarely of our choosing.  Now sometimes we make great friends and networks from this and create community through it.… Details

The Stories In Our Heads

Group dynamics are fascinating to me.  Just a few days ago I was having a conversation about various friends and their experiences with organized religion.  I know a few who entered what could be considered a monastic life, moving into a community geared towards a specific kind of spirituality, removing themselves from a mainstream lifestyle, living with rules and practices geared to elevate the spirit and remove them from the negative influences of normal life.… Details