Long Term Quality Of Life

Long term plans can help us achieve the most amazing results.  While we really like the examples of overnight success, they rarely actually are.  We’re just looking at the results of thousands of decisions that have accumulated into the underdog, look they done good, hero story. …Details

Colors In Perspective

I love spending time with my artist siblings for a great many reasons, one of which is the conversations about color.  My brother-in-law talking about the colors in the fused glass portraits he’s doing, how to get flesh tones and shading right through double-digit firings, my sister talking about the colors she uses on her crystal eggs that she is making to goto the Dolores Cannon Transformation Conference or “Arkansas” as we call it, and what colors we’re wearing and how that reflects our moods.…Details

But You’re Good At It

Just because you’re good at something doesn’t necessarily mean that’s a message for you to take that on as a career or a calling.  People get confused because they are good at this thing or that and therefore pursue it but find it unfulfilling or even soul killing. …Details

The Beacon Ahead

We don’t often think about our personal path as something that is interconnected with others.  It’s personal to us and connects as necessary for the service we perform or to help us achieve our goals such as to create community, to access some new facet of self, to move us ahead. …Details

The Big Picture

It’s often hard to get an idea of what the big picture will turn out to be when you start walking your path.  When people take that first step, when they commit to being who they really are and acting on it, not just inside in their private thoughts and feelings, but in their external lives where others can see, things can seem disjointed and disconnected to each other.…Details

Just A Common Soldier

JUST A COMMON SOLDIER (A Soldier Died Today)

by A. Lawrence Vaincourt


He was getting  old and paunchy and his hair was falling fast, And he sat around the Legion, telling stories of the past. Of a war that he had fought in and the deeds that he had done, In his exploits with his buddies; they were heroes, every one.


So What’s the Plan?

What if there is no plan?  So many clients come to me wanting to know what the meaning of something is.  Or looking for the lesson in an event or series of events that have occurred.  They are looking for the purpose, the plans they made prior to coming here, the narrative in their story and what comes next. …Details