This is from Dr. Susan Forward’s book Toxic Parents but if you substitute “person” for parent it’s easy to see that this applies to most cases of hurt and harm no matter what the situation or relationship. “One of the most dangerous things about forgiveness is that it undercuts your ability to let go of…
DetailsEach of us has a path. A way of living our life practically in this world that allows our bodies/hearts/minds to harmonize with our soul. We dub it ‘authenticity’ and some people seek it forever as if it’s somewhere ‘out there’ and needs to be found. But like Dorothy in the Wizard of OZ, the…
DetailsI was reading something today that suddenly brought things into focus: “Fire qi is the full expression of Wood’s vision. Fire brings forth the rose, lays the paint on the canvas, and gives voice to the song that’s been forming in the depths of your heart. “Fire is intense, passionate, and calls forth our need…
DetailsThere is a difference between experiencing a sequence of events around excessive heat (someone turns the oven on and leaves it over night, the thermostat goes all out rather than turning things off, the car overheats suddenly and you’re stuck by the side of the road, someone puts Habaneros in the salad by mistake) and…
DetailsManipulative people are those who try to get other people to do what they want, sometimes without the person knowing they are being manipulated, but not always. This can be because they don’t want to do the thing themselves, they don’t want to be responsible for the consequences, they don’t want to expend the necessary…
DetailsSorry I didn’t get this out earlier, but there’s no new podcast episode this week. Here’s a picture of my kitty to hold you over. Mary Ellen is pleased with my quilting progress. 🙂
DetailsIt’s funny to me how skilled people can be at ignoring the obvious. Their lives can be in ruins all around them, their marriage functional only in name, career no longer anything but an exercise in futility and repeated self-abuse, personal life long ago sacrificed to perceived needs and defunct goals and yet they turn…
DetailsPretty much everyone, sometime in their life, has negotiated with Spirit in whatever manifestation they are connected with. You know they “If you get me out of this I’ll do ______.” We’re not actually pledging that, in fact rarely do we have any intention of doing it, but we’re trying to get attention of someone…
DetailsHave you ever noticed that Forgiveness is something that gets talked about in Hallmark card terminology? It’s almost always something we should have or should practice, comes with graphics of flowers or butterflies, and promises to be the answer to issues where harm has been done. It’s like making closure when there is no closure…
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