People sometimes get fixated on a mythological someday where they will have all the time and the energy in the world to do what they want to do. Which never seems to be today and never even seems to be soon. This mythological someday requires that we not enjoy what we’re doing right now, that…
DetailsYou know the saying, “If it looks like a duck and acts like a duck and sounds like a duck then it’s probably..” There’s a lot of truth to that which people ignore on a really regular basis especially in relationships. I can’t even count how many people over the past 30 years have talked…
DetailsI love it when I look in someone’s soul book and see that they have an array of potential partner contracts to work with and not just one. Everyone wants that magical prince(ss) to come and sweep them off their feet, provide for all their needs emotional and otherwise, and with which they will live…
DetailsPeople do loooooove their opposites and absolutes. Either things will go well or I’ll fall into abject poverty. I’ll either win the lottery or be forced to slave at a low wage job forever. I’ll either find the woman of my dreams or I’ll have to settle for whoever comes along, because being lonely is…
Details*9 women can’t make a baby in a month *I’m dancing as fast as I can *Patience is a virtue *A watched pot never boils We have a lot of ways to say that it takes however long it takes to get the end result. That doesn’t make it any easier on us or make…
DetailsWell, you don’t. It’s kinda this weird cause and effect thing. If you don’t want things to change, then you don’t have to change at all. Oh, but you do? Then you have to change. But there’s nothing wrong with you, you’ve done it all right and it’s everything else that’s garbage? Oh, ok. So…
DetailsMelody Beattie The New Codependency “Our body has knowledge and wisdom. Listen to what it’s saying. Do we want to touch someone? Do we want them to touch us? Do we move away from someone, back off? Do we cringe when someone touches our arm? Pay attention to the body’s wisdom in our daily life,…
DetailsYes, work is a four letter word. Yes, being on your path means that work doesn’t feel like work because you enjoy what you do. Yes, it should make you want to get up in the morning rather than make you want to hit the snooze button and hid under the covers. All of that. …
DetailsMy life is about helping people figure out whether they are on their path, what their path is, and what the plan is for following it in the best way possible. What’s interesting is that most people imagine their path as a tightrope they have to walk and that the problem is they are blindfolded…
DetailsIt’s a rule of thumb that we excuse other’s choices and actions as a result of circumstances and yet we blame ourselves for having character flaws and serious problems or issues when we’re in the same spot. Yes, we’re all responsible for our choices and actions in any given situation but I don’t know how…
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