One of my fondest memories of Thanksgiving is the one I spent my senior year of college. A group of us had exactly no money to fly back home for the holiday, but two of us had apartments in the same complex so we decided to put together our own celebration.…
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One of the greatest gifts I’ve ever received from a lover was this: You don’t have to explain yourself to anyone. As a woman I had never considered this as an option let alone a fact. That was something that was a part of men and men’s lives. …
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Ever notice that when you go back home for a visit you fall into old patterns? Seen your sweetheart become a teenager again as soon as they hit the door to their parent’s place? The longer we live our own lives, healing dysfunctional patterns and creating balance and wholeness the more jarring it is to come back into contact with the old patterns. …
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It’s like trying to feed a kid their medicine. It’s the one thing that will make them feel better, it’s even flavored for gawd sake, but its the last thing they want and you have to wrestle them down and hold them like a cat trying to get this stuff far enough down ’em that they can’t spit it out. …
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There are lots of ways to dump something on someone else. “Here’s the laundry *whump* now fold it.” “Honey, I just said ‘yes’ to so-and-so’s party. We need to bring something, but I know you can figure that out.” “I just agreed that our team can take on this goal and make it in half the time that they projected. …
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For US residents we are quickly coming up on the Thanksgiving holiday where we are meant to take a time out and appreciate all we are thankful for. Like all practices this can be a fantastic thing or it can be horrific, depending on how it’s implemented. …
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This season there will be lots of visiting and being visited and tons of people doing for and doing about and scurrying to make sure that everyone has what they need and things are taken care of. The weird part is, in all this to doing the people to doing it will generally not include themselves in the equation. …
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We’re responsible for our actions. What we don’t often recognize is our reactions. Something happens and we don’t even know that it jerked off our path because the reaction is habitual and as persistent as air or gravity. It’s just the way it is as far as we’re concerned.…
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To everything there is a season, right? I have students and clients that come to me wanting to know why they aren’t making progress or why nothing is working. They can tell me all the things which they are doing in their lives to make things better but things either don’t change or can even get worse. …
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Blessings,
Teri…