It is easy to make choices when all you are responsible for is yourself. You look at your needs and goals, make choices to get them met in the best way possible weighing all the pros and cons or not as you choose and the outcome is on you regardless of what happens. But when…
DetailsEverything is interconnected. Practitioners of Chinese medicine and holistic healing have known this for millennia. Native American healers have work with these principles today to help people understand that the symptoms can only be cured when you find the actual issue and work to cure that. Otherwise you are trying to hold back the surf…
DetailsWe are the most creative beings ever. We create alternate worlds in our own minds where things happen, people interact, and the world turns completely differently from our experience in our bodies. Which is an amazing tool for spinning dreams and creating goals, for surviving terrifying and abusive or even deadly situations, and for making…
DetailsIt’s true. We take a day off from work to honor all of us who work. Silly, but nice. Have a good one.
So the common quote is “Don’t just stand there, do something.” Which has a lot of merit. If you haven’t taken any steps to get what you want in life or something is chronic and you’ve been complaining about it for a long time, do something, anything, interpretive dance, for goodness sake, and things will…
DetailsIn working with clients I spend quite a bit of time helping them unlearn the logic that the world has taught them. You know, the stuff everyone knows, the common wisdom you learn from school, the things the media drums into our head, etc, etc. And while science has done amazing things for us and…
DetailsNo, not the stuff in your pocket or at the bottom of your purse. And not the “change your life today or else” speech or the “you will survive this catastrophic event” speech. I think there’s enough of those around to fill the Library of Congress, thank you very much. No there are other kinds…
DetailsIt seems so simple. Want a thing, work for the thing, and eventually get the thing, then move on to the next thing. I mean it can be as simple as “Wow, Cheetos!” and you grab them in the store, pay for them, and you are happily munching an amazingly tasty not-really food product. However,…
DetailsMost people lead what Plato called ‘the unexamined life’, which to him was one of the greatest sins of all time. It’s natural for us to get deeply involved in the day-to-day of our lives, more so if what we are doing is highly relevant to our perceived survival such as buying a house, getting…
DetailsIn a consumer culture the main complaint people voice is about money. Not having enough of it, owing too much of it, not having it when you want it, others not giving it where they need to, too many people asking for it, people not using it ‘wisely’, money management, saving for a rainy day,…
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