Have you noticed that we tend to remember the bad things and take our emotional queue from them? Why not choose today to pay attention to the good things that happen. Make a list of good things that happen, small or large or both, and at the end of the day, read through it. How…
DetailsA friend of mine was at my house and we were talking clothes. Yep, I’m female and sometimes I’m a cliché. 🙂 But I was stunned when she turned to me and said “Your life is so much fun. Look at all of this!”. Now, I enjoy my life, don’t get me wrong, but the…
DetailsSociety so applauds competition that it creates competitive concepts within itself. It makes additive behavior seem and feel like a reward and makes rewards look like self-indulgent behavior. It makes self-sacrifice and hard work for others seem virtuous even, or specifically, when it is damaging to you and makes it feel like doing anything for…
DetailsHave you ever wanted something but felt overwhelmed by how much work it would take to get it? Has it felt impossible to get from there to here? That’s common. We are, after all, only one person living in one moment at a time and most things that we want require a lot of moments…
DetailsSo if you were to dream big, what would that look like? Would it be a new to you car? A new car? Would it be that new dress you have wanted for a while even through you have nowhere to wear it? Would it be to travel somewhere you’ve never been for long enough…
DetailsEveryone has trust issues. We are taught from a very young age not to trust ourselves. Parenting has become about scheduling, activities, ‘getting it right’ so that futures are bright, and having all the right things. So many times I’ve seen babies so immersed in toys and objects that they cry just from the over…
DetailsIt’s not the addictive substances or activities we use to medicate the pain away. It’s the things that we’ve been taught don’t matter – sitting in the sunlight, crafting for no other purpose than just because you feel like it, going for a walk somewhere you’ve never been. Why do those things if there’s no…
DetailsAddictions are medicine. Something inside us feels bad. Rarely is this physical. Addictions actually hurt the body and cause it to react negatively. Addictions are medicine for emotions, fear, sadness, loneliness, despair, anxiety, and hopelessness to name a few. Using the addictive substance or activity alleviates those feelings momentarily. It puts us into a physical…
DetailsAddictions, to food/sex/drugs/TV/alcohol/gambling, are usually just a symptom of something more. They are an escape or a way to try and stop whatever feeling is going on inside your body and your heart. Whether they are a way to deal with depression, feeling like a victim, feeling lost, or lonliness, they are a way that…
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