Throughout my childhood I was told that I would goto college and get a degree and do something intelligent with it. And that was pretty much the scope of my plans for the future. When I was 18 I forged ahead to find a school and when I got there I focused on getting my…
DetailsThere are a couple of sayings that run through my mind quite often when I’m out and about in the world. One is a bit obscure as it’s a skit from Kids In The Hall: A young man is on the sidewalk outside a large apt building with a cymbal and a drum stick repeating…
DetailsPeople say that “life is busy”, but I like to say “life is full of life”. We no longer live in small villages where you can walk to everything, are fairly self-sufficient, live by the seasons, and rarely go more than 20 miles in any direction. We live in communities which are separate from our…
DetailsI’ve heard it said that teachers in mystery schools are intentionally vague and frustratingly non-sensical when it comes to teaching about the Universe and how to be your best self in it. I’ve experienced that myself and on the one had I understand it because no teacher can give you the experience of doing it…
DetailsConfrontation has become a really negative word. No one wants confrontation. It’s equated with unnecessary drama, discomfort, awkwardness, and negativity. It’s been associated with anger, fury, and personal attacks, harassment, control, and abuse. It has become something to be avoided at all costs. In order to avoid confrontation, problems need to be ignored, worked around…
DetailsThere’s such a thing as black humor. It’s the humor that happens when a situation is grim, stressful, and things have been difficult far too much or too long or too often. Some people find it inappropriate, but when you’re in the middle of things it can really help create solidarity, relieve tension, and break…
DetailsTo paint things in rather broad strokes, most if not all Native American cultures use animal behavior to teach them about the right way to live. Coyote’s antics tell us what not to do. Rabbit tells us how to avoid negativity, mouse shows us what happens if we keep our nose too much in our…
DetailsMy life is busy. Anyone that knows me will tell you the same and call that an understatement. There are a bazillion things I love to do and I try to fit them all in, plus the things that are good for me, plus there’s all the things about my Spirituality that call me and…
DetailsEveryone has it at some point in their life. It can be over an interview for a job, going on a first date, bungee jumping, meeting someone who is important to you, skiing downhill, speaking in public, swimming….you name it, it can cause anxiety. Which is not necessarily a bad thing. Anxiety pumps us up,…
DetailsI have a friend that’s amazing at this. She just knows what she wants. And she can tell you all about it. All the details are in her head and they change from moment to moment and they sometimes conflict with each other and like a flock of peacocks they all vie for attention as…
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